Saturday, April 25, 2009

Okay, Mom.

So simple, yet the most beautiful words heard out of my almost 4-yr-old's mouth after I told him "no" for something. No tantrum. No negotiation. No repeated requests. Just "okay". And I have witnesses. Whose jaws dropped.

Are we finally done with the Terrible Twos or did he just realize I'm even more strong-willed? More likely, the hard work of his teachers is paying off. They spend a lot of time talking about using your words and controlling strong emotions. Either way, it's just so cool!

Monday, April 20, 2009

NDV Winter Sports Clinic

At the end of March, I had the opportunity to participate in the National Disabled Veteran's Winter Sports Clinic in Snowmass, Colorado, as a volunteer ski instructor. For an entire week, I taught disabled American war veterans between the ages of 23 and 86 (!) to ski with the help of various adaptive equipment.

The cameraderie and energy amongst instructors and participants was unparalleled. It is amazing what these people have experienced and how they have chosen to recover and continue to enjoy life to the fullest. Each one of my students had a special story and I am honored to have played a part in the physical and mental recovery process of someone with a traumatic brain injury, or to have enabled someone with a degenerative disease to get up on the mountain on two skis just one more time. And what a rewarding experience to see the smile on their faces and receive their praise and gratitude at the end of the day.

I look forward to being a part of this wonderful event every year for many more years. I've selected some photos below, but there are many more photos on facebook (this link should be publicly accessible).


Joe and Uta with Angel.


Uta with Richard at midstation.


Peter with Al and snowboard guru Andy Finch.


The complete Minnesota gang (missing Dana; 16 of the nearly 200 instructors from all over the US)...


...and the usual suspects.

About the Winter Sports Clinic
About the Courage Center Ski & Snowboard Program in Minnesota

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Bilingual Baby - Echt Zweisprachig

Dominik is not even two and probably doesn't have 50 words in his vocabulary yet, but he is already interpreting German into English for us. It goes like this:

"Dominik, sag mal 'Auto'" [say 'car'] - "car"
"Sag mal 'Laster'" - "truck"
"Sag mal 'Ente'" - "duck"

[Photo: Easter egg hunt, 4/12/09]

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Rest in peace, Fifi

Fifi as a Kitten, well before we got herIt was a tough decision, but I think we did the right thing for you. I'm glad I could be there until the end and say good-bye. We will always remember you fondly as the spunky little kitty that would defend her territory against the smallest chipmunks and the biggest dogs. Remember hissing and spitting at Kayla through the basement door? Remember bringing mice into our bedroom? Remember chasing through our old house from top to bottom whenever there was another critter walking by the windows? Remember sleeping on our computer monitor or on the tiny shelf in the entertainment center? Remember your kitty castle with little holes all over that you could stick your paws through to bat at us?

Fifi around 4 years old Maybe you can be a doggy in cat heaven. I know you would like that; and Dominik would finally get it right!

We love you. Rest in peace.

Friday, March 6, 2009

Wise Boy

The boys and I had a rough bedtime last night, everyone was agitated, no one wanted to go to bed. Despite my best intentions to keep calm, the impatient and angry mob inside me won out a couple of times. Lukas quickly took over the role of adult in charge: "Mami, no yelling, just say it." And then proceeded to tell me a little anecdote about his friend at school, whom he seems to have taken a toy away from, his friend promptly yelled or screamed or threw a tantrum, and calm teacher intervened with above words, or so I gather the incident occurred. After the initial surprise, I collected myself and realized how awesome it is that the boy gets to go to preschool and learn coping behaviors, and doesn't have to spend all day with me and the unruly mob.

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Snow Day

Well, it wasn't really a snow day, but it could have been, had it started snowing 12 hours earlier. By evening rush hour, several inches of the pretty white stuff had fallen, and we spent a fun evening outside, sledding, skiing and shoveling.

Growing up fast


Dominik is growing up so fast. In the last couple of days, he added such critical words as NO, HI, and ON (or AN in German)!

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Skiing Together

In a mixture of boredom and insanity, I decided to take both boys skiing by myself a few weeks ago. Dominik had never been out and only practiced once in the basement, but immediately started walking on his plastic "skis" over to the bunny hill. Lukas has been getting good enough that he can ski without tethers and too much interference from me. So we spent a few hours on the bunny hill, with me riding the magic carpet up right behind Dominik and then skiing down with him between my legs. Exhausting, but fun!

Monday, February 23, 2009

Fettsack

Seit einem Jahr oder so nennen Nadja und ich Dominik ab und an liebevoll "Fettsack". Ist er ja nun wirklich nicht, das Kind ist ein Fliegengewicht mit seinen 20 Pfund. Aber er hat so süße dicke Wadeln und so einen runden Bauch nach dem Essen. Nun ja, vor ein paar Tagen begrüßte Lukas dann Nadja morgens mit "Fettsack"! Ab sofort heißt Dominik jetzt "Kiek", nach seinem momentanen zweitliebsten Wort, Keks, und das Wort Fettsack hat Hausverbot.

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Wir sind wir


Santa scares little boys all over the world


Dominik taking apart our furniture


Lukas hiking at Taylor's Falls

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Special Chippendales Performance

Dominik doesn't like clothes. When winter came, he kept pulling on his long sleeves and was quite mad when I put footed pajamas on him. Every day, I find his socks in the strangest hiding places around the house, and we rarely bother to put them back on anymore. Yesterday, I came home, he was already short-sleeved and bare-foot. After saying our hellos, he disappeared around a corner, then came back, handed me his jeans and walked away again. Spent the rest of the evening in his onesie. I can't wait until he learns to unbutton those and starts taking it all off.

Sunday, January 25, 2009

More than Words

Dominik's current collection of words:

  1. oh-oh
  2. wow
  3. papa
  4. mama
  5. daddy
  6. nada (nadja)
  7. goo-goo (guck-guck = peekaboo)
  8. ee-ah (hee-haw = i-ah)
  9. moo (cows)
  10. bah (sheep)
  11. cool
  12. digga (tiger or "Dicker"?)
  13. doggie (all things furry)
  14. papa bear (this is from a German kids CD)
  15. lookatdad (look at that)
  16. tssinder? (what's in there?)
  17. duk (truck)
  18. tunnel

This is starting to get interesting, because there is more every day now. Finally!

Lukas Skiing Photos

An album of Lukas skiing between January 2007 and January 2009 has been posted on Uta's Facebook profile: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=57267&l=13496&id=584380901

Thursday, January 1, 2009

The Boys in 2008

A photo album of favorites of 2008 has been posted on Uta's Facebook profile.

Welcome!

Welcome to the new home of Moncur.net! We've decided to discontinue or old server and find free and easy-to-maintain hosting elsewhere. A blog seemed ideal for its ease of posting new text and photos.

We won't post too many photos for personal reason, but if you are a family member or a friend, please find us on www.facebook.com, where we will regularly update the photo albums.

Enjoy!
Uta and Mike

Saturday, January 1, 2000

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